February 2010 Archives
Advice on Relationships – Bring back the newness and butterflies!!!
What does your relationship look like now? Are you desperately seeking advice on relationships because you and your ,an lost the butterflies?
The stomach ache comes when you see some other couple in the “new” phase of their relationship and you realize that you are so far from the passion and fizzle. Ugh! It’s the worst. And then it gets even worse because your self esteem plummets. You get all worried that something is wrong with you because your boyfriend isn’t chasing you down and getting all excited over you like he did in the beginning.
So, sometimes you get your advice on relationships from parents or friends that tell you to start doing more. Like – start calling him more and doing all of these nice things for him. And this seems pretty logical, but I have to tell you – this is the WORST thing you can do.
I tried all that stuff before. Like – oh, let me write him this big long letter and buy him gifts and feed his dog. Let me SHOW him how much he means to me and then he’ll be all over me again.
Um, yeah, that didn’t work at all. In fact, it pushed him away.
So, it was time to find advice on relationships that actually worked.
So, I read a bunch of stuff and most of the articles I found gave lame advice, much like the advice on relationships you should NOT take. And then I finally found Christian Carter, who is like a God. Not only is he hot! But, he really knows how women work and especially how a man works. So, he lays it all out in the clearest way, what TO Do and what NOT to do. A lot of it made so much sense and some of it was surprising but in looking back at how you first fall in love and the reasons the beginning is so fresh and new and exciting – it makes total sense. You can actually feel that way throughout your whole relationship and he gives you advice on relationships to keep it going and to make it the type of lasting attraction that just grows deeper.
His advice on relationships just happens to seep right into your life as a whole. Your self-esteem and confidence totally soars.
Check him out here:
