March 2010 Archives
Advice on relationships,Maybe
How is any third party supposed to assimilate what is truly being experienced between two individuals ? With all the complexity of feelings,worries,fears,desires and even hormones all stirred up in endless combinations, is it possible?
The very strength of outside observation is just that. It is outside. Many times one of the above elements is so dominant that those in the relationship can easily lose sight of the others. Here is where the objectivity of the outsider becomes valuable.
Don’t be fearful of seeking advice.