March 2011 Archives
Strengthen Your Intuition
When it comes to advice on relationships, you must consider the many combinations of people getting together for different reasons. Some for love, some for companionship, some for friendship etc. Also, each individual is so unique bringing all their past and present issues to play. It can get very complex. My best suggestion is strengthen your intuition, learn from the past and be wise but flexible. No one will ever be the perfect person you need, but they can be the best. Good luck!
The Most Important Person to Love
It’s hard dealing with any kind of heartache, but going through a divorce or any kind of relationship break-up has to be the worst. By nature, we all want to share our deepest feelings and emotions with someone we love and trust. We build a beautiful security knowing that someone cares and when it’s over, we feel so alone and feel we can never find someone to understand, love and trust the same way again. However, somehow we all get through it and end up meeting someone new eventually. We are creatures of habit and we do want to share, but before we do, we must realize that the most important person to help you is you. The most important person to love you is you and the most important person to trust is yourself. Do that and you won’t feel so much you have to share with someone as someone will feel they have to share with you.
Anger Stems from the Past
Many relationships fail when anger which can stem from somewhere outside the relationship is gone unchecked. We must be cognizant of the fact that not all anger comes from the same place you think it started at that moment. Just because somebody said what you feel might have been the wrong thing to say, doesn’t mean that you are angry because of what they said. It could be that the anger stems from the past and what was said just aggravated a latent tendency toward that anger.
